Tonight at DSF

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Time sure flies when you’re not paying attention! Tonight is my needle play class for DSF at Paddles in NYC. Click here for the full event description and details. I’m in a great mood, have 2 super-cute demo bottoms and a tentative play date after the class. Sadly my acupuncturist friend won’t be joining us this time. Even still, I’m …

Presenting the Goddess Tatsumi

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Looks like I’ll be giving my Needle Play class at DomSubFriends next month. Click here for the full event description and details. I wonder if the audience would mind if I showed up in a comfy t-shirt and jeans instead of kinky, fetish attire. <shrugs> Maybe the Goddess will have returned to me by then and I’ll feel like getting …

It’s not you, it’s me.

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A lovely person recently wrote the following in a FetLife post and it really resonated with me. People come and go in life. Some stay for a time, be it short, to teach, to learn or to grow. Some step in and back out because of their inability to accept, give, or receive what is needed or offered. Some are …

Short update

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Has it really been 4 months since my last update? Sheesh! All I can say in my defense is that I’ve been super chatty on twitter. You can follow me @tatsumi. So, to wrap up the last 4 months… I stopped doing Freelance Graphic Design and started my own company with my girlfriend. Soulhuntre and Kimi are both super supportive …

Too many drafts!

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I have 2 posts in draft stage, about Leather Retreat and TESFest, just waiting for me to finish them. I’ll get around to it eventually. In the meantime, I thought you all would like to know that the formerly-nameless-LGBTQ-talent-agency has been named PhinLi Bookings, LLC. You should check them out on twitter @PhinLi.

Getting ready for Leather Retreat

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This year, instead of going to Dark Odyssey Summer Samp in September, I’m going to attend Dark Odyssey Leather Retreat during the last week of June. I’m a little apprehensive about going by myself, but I’m also really excited! I don’t have any play dates or sex dates set up yet but I do have a line on some cuddle …

Go Iowa!

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Not that I’m a big political animal, but I feel the need to share the good news in Iowa today. Crazy that IOWA is more progressive than most of the East Coast, but there it is.


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And just like that, it’s gone. A big thank you to Soulhuntre for doing the tech work required to make the move. In other news, I’m thinking about checking out this weekend. Any ever been? Planning to go this year? Wanna meet at the cuddle party on Friday night? <grins>

Almost outta here

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In just 13 short hours, I’ll be on the road to DOSC ’08. I hope it doesn’t rain and I don’t have any panic attacks. See ya’ll on the flip side! 🙂

DOSC 08 packing list

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These are a few of the items I plan to bring to camp. Fortunately, I’m driving down in an SUV so I can fit all of this crap!!