All better now

In Personal by imposingadmin

You may have noticed my site had a nasty cold (aka Malware infection) last week. Thanks to Soulhuntre, and an upgrade to WordPress 3.0, it’s all better now. Hope everyone (in the US) has a good Holiday weekend! 🙂

Working stiff

In Personal by tatsumi

Early last month I took a part time gig teaching computer basics and  fixing minor technical problems to cover some expenses. It’s actually pretty fun but the time away from my own work is getting to me. Suffice to say, I don’t have much room for blogging. Heck, I barely tweet these days! With any luck, this is a temporary situation and by this …

It’s not you, it’s me.

In Family, Personal, Sex by tatsumi

A lovely person recently wrote the following in a FetLife post and it really resonated with me. People come and go in life. Some stay for a time, be it short, to teach, to learn or to grow. Some step in and back out because of their inability to accept, give, or receive what is needed or offered. Some are …

Short update

In BDSM, Family, Personal, Sex by tatsumi

Has it really been 4 months since my last update? Sheesh! All I can say in my defense is that I’ve been super chatty on twitter. You can follow me @tatsumi. So, to wrap up the last 4 months… I stopped doing Freelance Graphic Design and started my own company with my girlfriend. Soulhuntre and Kimi are both super supportive …


In Personal by tatsumi

Wednesday morning, I made myself a protein shake and tried to ignore the nausea that had been coming and going for the past 2 weeks. A few hours later, I started hiccuping. I’ve dealt with bouts of hiccups since high school and usually they go away on thier own after a few hours to 2 days. The longest I had …

A gloomy day that held so much promise

In Family, Personal by tatsumi

I had big plans for today (there are 3 town street fairs within 20 miles of my house and 1 is a gay pride celebration) but it’s gloomy, rainy, damp, humid and kinda yuck outside. Soulhuntre, Kimiko and Seraphin are coming over anyway (because they’re great family and I’d kill them if they bailed) but now I’m not sure what …


In BDSM, Personal by tatsumi

If you come to the site to read this blog, you’ll notice a few new things. Yesterday, I replaced the header image and added a new page. Today, thanks to Viviane’s Blogroll, I’ve updated my links list to point at the sites I think are worth a look. Did you know that NYC’s 2009 LGBT Pride March is Sunday June …

Go Iowa!

In Personal, Sex by tatsumi

Not that I’m a big political animal, but I feel the need to share the good news in Iowa today. Crazy that IOWA is more progressive than most of the East Coast, but there it is.

When I was in college…

In Personal by tatsumi

A lot has changed about me since I was a co-ed. Some good and some not-so-good. There is some seriously personal, seriously heavy shit behind the cut. You have been warned…


In Family, Personal by tatsumi

Speaking of getting out more often, I’m actually going out tonight to a friend’s birthday party in the city. I’ll be back home tomorrow evening or Thursday morning. Gotta love that warm weather 🙂