It’s not you, it’s me.

In Family, Personal, Sex by tatsumi

A lovely person recently wrote the following in a FetLife post and it really resonated with me. People come and go in life. Some stay for a time, be it short, to teach, to learn or to grow. Some step in and back out because of their inability to accept, give, or receive what is needed or offered. Some are …

Short update

In BDSM, Family, Personal, Sex by tatsumi

Has it really been 4 months since my last update? Sheesh! All I can say in my defense is that I’ve been super chatty on twitter. You can follow me @tatsumi. So, to wrap up the last 4 months… I stopped doing Freelance Graphic Design and started my own company with my girlfriend. Soulhuntre and Kimi are both super supportive …

A gloomy day that held so much promise

In Family, Personal by tatsumi

I had big plans for today (there are 3 town street fairs within 20 miles of my house and 1 is a gay pride celebration) but it’s gloomy, rainy, damp, humid and kinda yuck outside. Soulhuntre, Kimiko and Seraphin are coming over anyway (because they’re great family and I’d kill them if they bailed) but now I’m not sure what …


In Family, Personal by tatsumi

Speaking of getting out more often, I’m actually going out tonight to a friend’s birthday party in the city. I’ll be back home tomorrow evening or Thursday morning. Gotta love that warm weather 🙂

An update!!

In BDSM, Family, Personal by tatsumi

Last month I finally bit the bullet and quit my day job. They had been making my life hell for over 20 months and at the prompting for my friends and family, I finally told them where they could shove it – in a very professional way, of course. Even still, it felt pretty good to be rid of them. …

Hi there

In Family, Personal by tatsumi

Spent most of this weekend sleeping. Think I’m fighting off a cold. I should be prepping for the New Years Eve party I’m hosting on Wed. night, but I’m just so tired. Had a nice xmas and a good b-day too. Still hate my job. Still unmotivated to do much about it aside from gripe.   Going back to sleep …


In Family, Personal by tatsumi

As always, there’s not enough time to catch you up on what I’ve been up to. Suffice to say, nothing too exciting aside from a trip to the Aquarium last weekend with some great people. So much to do this weekend – I need to find a new job (which involves updating my resume, professional website, printed sample book and various …

Maybe not so much fucking

In BDSM, Family, Personal, Sex by tatsumi

So much for the fuck-fest I was thinking of for DOSC’08. Recent events have left me more STD-paranoid than ever which makes me totally uninterested in sex. I’m trying not to be really annoyed about it. I’m trying to focus on the positive. I’m trying not to think about it as a wasted $600+ on a sex weekend without the sex. …


In Family, Personal by tatsumi

This past Saturday, Seraphin and I went to the Eighth Annual Butterfly Festival from 12 to 4pm at the Watershed Reserve in NJ. This year there weren’t many types of butterflies but I still took a lot of pictures and had a great time at the visitor center and the various ‘green’ booths. It always strikes me as weird that Lady Bugs, …


In Family, Personal by tatsumi

It seems that I am taking on too much (again) and the pressure is so much that I’m letting things slip. I lost my glasses, forgot my keys, left my phone charger behind, and the list goes on. I talked to a few people about it and it looks like I need to cut back in order to regain some …